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As I've shared before, I joined an all-white sorority when I was in college and at no point, despite its radical difference from my HS world did I think, "This is not right and I need to speak up about it." Greek life at my college was created as an insular world. Conformity was encouraged, and because we lived together it was possible to exist almost entirely within the bubble. Seeing something outside the group required intentional seeking and I didn't do that. To this day it's one of my deepest regrets.

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I also think this one is seen in more innocuous situations. I've been the only person in a workplace who saw a problem that was a huge obstacle and calling that out was a pretty lonely endeavor, though it eventually proved correct. I've also experienced calling it out and having it readily received and changes made, which was awesome! Think of the spaces where you live, particularly those that help to make up your identity - what's happening there that you may have ceased to see?

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